一、效果演示

二、Model创建

    //User：用于绑定DataGrid控件的数据 private ObservableCollection<User> _users = new ObservableCollection<User>();public ObservableCollection<User> Users{get { return _users; }set { _users = value; }}//SelectedUser：用于存放DataGrid当行选中时的数据private User _selectedUser;public User SelectedUser{get { return _selectedUser; }set{_selectedUser = value;OnPropertyChanged(nameof(SelectedUser));}}}//自定义数据结构
public class User
{public int Id { get; set; }public string Name { get; set; }public DateTime Birthday { get; set; }public int Sex { get; set; }public string School { get; set; }
}

ObservableCollection<T> 是一个特殊的集合类，它继承自 INotifyCollectionChanged 和 INotifyPropertyChanged 接口
当 ObservableCollection<T> 中的项目被添加、删除或替换时，它会触发 CollectionChanged 事件。这个事件可以被绑定的UI元素（如DataGrid, ListView等）捕获，从而自动更新其显示的内容

 三、ViewModel创建

为DataGrid添加数据

 public Page2ViewModel() {
//为Users添加数据for(int i = 0; i < 20; i=i+5){Page2Model.Users.Add(new User() { Id = i, Name = "A Doe", Birthday = new DateTime(1971, 7, 23), Sex = 1, School = "A" });Page2Model.Users.Add(new User() { Id = i+1, Name = "B Doe", Birthday = new DateTime(1974, 1, 17), Sex = 0, School = "B" });Page2Model.Users.Add(new User() { Id = i+2, Name = "C Doe", Birthday = new DateTime(1991, 9, 2), Sex = 1, School = "C" });Page2Model.Users.Add(new User() { Id = i+3, Name = "D Doe", Birthday = new DateTime(1971, 7, 23), Sex = 1, School = "A" });Page2Model.Users.Add(new User() { Id = i+4, Name = "E Doe", Birthday = new DateTime(1974, 1, 17), Sex = 0, School = "B" });}}

按钮操作 

public CommandBase DataAddition
{get => new CommandBase{DoExecte = new Action<object>(CalcDataAddition)};
}
private void CalcDataAddition(object obj)
{Page2Model.Users.Add(new User() { Id = 3, Name = "***", Birthday = new DateTime(1991, 9, 2), Sex = 1, School = "C" });}public CommandBase DataDeletion
{get => new CommandBase{DoExecte = new Action<object>(CalcDataDeletion)};
}
private void CalcDataDeletion(object obj)
{Debug.WriteLine("用户删除按钮按下");User userToRemove = Page2Model.Users.FirstOrDefault(u => u.Id == 1); // 假设你根据Id查找用户  if (userToRemove != null){Page2Model.Users.Remove(userToRemove);}else{Debug.WriteLine("用户未找到");}
}public CommandBase IdQuery
{get => new CommandBase{DoExecte = new Action<object>(CalcIdQuery)};
}
private void CalcIdQuery(object obj)
{//Debug.WriteLine($"Selected User: {Page2Model.SelectedUser.Id}");User userToRemove = Page2Model.Users.FirstOrDefault(u => u.Id == Page2Model.SelectedUser.Id); // 假设你根据Id查找用户  if (userToRemove != null){Page2Model.Users.Remove(userToRemove);}else{Debug.WriteLine("用户未找到");}
}

四、VIew

 <Grid Background="White"><Grid.RowDefinitions><RowDefinition Height="3*" /><RowDefinition Height="1*" /></Grid.RowDefinitions><DataGrid x:Name="dgSimple" AutoGenerateColumns="False"  VerticalAlignment="Top"CanUserSortColumns="False"     Margin="5" IsReadOnly="True"CanUserResizeColumns="False" CanUserResizeRows="False"  SelectionMode="Single"CanUserReorderColumns="False" AlternationCount="2"  RowHeaderWidth="0" CanUserAddRows="False" ItemsSource="{Binding Page2Model.Users}"  SelectedItem="{Binding Page2Model.SelectedUser, Mode=TwoWay}" ><DataGrid.Columns><DataGridTextColumn Header="序号" Width="150"  Binding="{Binding  Id}"/><DataGridTextColumn Header="姓名"   Width="120"  Binding="{Binding Name}"/><DataGridTextColumn Header="生日"  Width="120"  Binding="{Binding Birthday}"/><DataGridTextColumn Header="性别"  Width="130"  Binding="{Binding Sex}"/><DataGridTextColumn Header="学校"  Width="140"  Binding="{Binding School}"/><DataGridTemplateColumn  Header="操作"  Width="140" ><DataGridTemplateColumn.CellTemplate><DataTemplate><StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal"><Button  Content="删除" Height="34"  Command="{Binding DataContext.IdQuery , RelativeSource={RelativeSource AncestorType={x:Type DataGrid}}}"  CommandParameter="{Binding}" Width="80" FontSize="20"    HorizontalAlignment="Center" VerticalAlignment="Center"></Button></StackPanel></DataTemplate></DataGridTemplateColumn.CellTemplate></DataGridTemplateColumn></DataGrid.Columns></DataGrid><Grid Grid.Row="1" ><StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal" ><Button  Content="数据添加" Width="150" Height="40" HorizontalAlignment="Left" VerticalAlignment="Top" Margin="10 15 0 0" Command="{Binding DataAddition}"/><Button  Content="数据删除" Width="150" Height="40" HorizontalAlignment="Left" VerticalAlignment="Top" Margin="10 15 0 0" Command="{Binding DataDeletion}"/><Button  Content="ID查询" Width="150" Height="40" HorizontalAlignment="Left" VerticalAlignment="Top" Margin="10 15 0 0" Command="{Binding IdQuery}"/></StackPanel></Grid></Grid>

实现按钮按下就删除行的重点为

SelectedItem="{Binding Page2Model.SelectedUser, Mode=TwoWay}"

当选中行时SelectedUser变量就会更新为选中的行的内容，

User userToRemove = Page2Model.Users.FirstOrDefault(u => u.Id == Page2Model.SelectedUser.Id);  //当ID对上时将会删除
    if (userToRemove != null)
    {
        Page2Model.Users.Remove(userToRemove);
    }
    else
    {
        Debug.WriteLine("用户未找到");
    }