The Strength of Being Misunderstood 被误解的力量
A founder recently asked me how to stop caring what other people think. I didn’t have an answer, and after reflecting on it more, I think it's the wrong question.
一位创始人最近问我如何停止关心别人的想法。我没有答案,在进一步思考之后,我认为这是一个错误的问题。
Almost everyone cares what someone thinks (though caring what everyone thinks is definitely a mistake), and it's probably important. Caring too much makes you a sheep. But you need to be at least a little in tune with others to do something useful for them.
几乎每个人都关心别人的想法(尽管关心每个人的想法绝对是错误的),而且这可能很重要。关心太多会让你成为一只羊。但是您至少需要与他人保持一致才能为他们做一些有用的事情。